All good things come to an end. All bad things do, too, apparently. In short, all things come to an end.
And that’s the nature of things. But how do they?
Some things end abruptly. Without warning – like sudden death. One fine Tuesday morning – while everything is as normal as it seems; in less than a few minutes, things end. A world that you always assume is there, is no more. It changes. There is nothing you can do; you live with the change.
Some things end with an alert. I am ending; I am going away; I will be no more. There is denial and acceptance, at the same time. This worse than #I, in a sense. The wait is the worst. The rubber-band of of hope and dread; but the alert is clear and confident. And it dies.
Some things just end. No warning. No alert. While there is a way we can deal with #I or #II, there is no way to deal with #III. Because you do not know! It just dies a death. It’s in your face – it is obvious and not. It’s like participating in a slow death; only you do not know.
#III is the worst.
#I and #II have ashes. #III is vapour.
It’s never about death; it is always about the pain. Pain is personal. There isn’t a pain that is better than an another.
Death is temporary; pain is permanent.